Ramban (Rabbi Moshe ben Nachman, 13th century Barcelona) points out that the conclusion of the book of Shemot, with its detailed recording of the construction and expenditures involved in completing the Mishkan, places the entire Jewish people at the level of spirituality that was present in the homes of our patriarchs and matriarchs at the conclusion of the previous book, Bereshit. Just as the spirit of the Lord hovered over the tents of our forebears, so too was it recognizably present amongst the nation of Israel. Constructed for that purpose, the spirit of the Lord dwelled within the Mishkan.
This observation contains an important message. Jewish tradition teaches us that there are two places, so to speak, where the Lord’s presence may be experienced and should be cultivated. God’s glory fills the entire universe; He is omnipresent. We puny human beings, however, need a personal God to whom we can somehow relate. That God can be found in two places in our small and narrow world. One place is in our home, in our family and our daily lives. The second place is in the house of worship, study and Torah service. That is our substitute Mishkan, where we can discern the spirit of God if only we are attuned and sensitive enough to experience it. These two pillars of Jewish life have accompanied us on our long journey in the world—and throughout our history. Both these bastions of Jewish strength and vitality—the
home and the synagogue or study hall—are the meeting places so to speak of
Israel with its God. But they are besieged and under attack in today’s society.
The home, marriage, children and a sense of family have yielded to casual relationships,
later marriages, more divorces, increased spouse abuse, and the sacrifice of
children and family on the altars of career and hedonism.
Without strong Jewish families there cannot be a viable
Jewish nation or a strong State of Israel. Certainly, intermarriage has eroded
the concept of Jewish family but, even when this does not occur, the bonds of
family are frayed by television, the internet and by society generally.
Sometimes, even well-meaning gestures are counterproductive.
During my years as a rabbi in Miami Beach we always had many Shabbat guests. Because
of that, contact between us and our own young children was pretty much
eliminated. One Friday one of our younger daughters said to my wife: “Mommy,
are children also guests?” We got the message and then made certain that one of
the Shabbat meals would be exclusively with our children.
The synagogue also has lost much since it became subject
to the whims and comfort of the attendees and was no longer the House of God
where He is to be glimpsed and served according to His wishes as expressed in
Torah and halacha. I hope that the message of the Ramban will certainly not be
lost upon us.