What Does Hashem Really Want From Us?

 In this week's Torah post, our member Rabbi Paul Bloom asks what parashat Eikev teaches us about Yirat Shamayim.

The Cornerstone of Torah Living

One of the most profound questions in the Torah appears in Parashat Eikev:

"And now, Israel, what does Hashem your God ask of you?" (Devarim 10:12).

At first glance, the question seems almost unnecessary. After forty years in the wilderness—receiving the Torah at Sinai, witnessing countless miracles, and learning directly from Moshe Rabbeinu—surely the Jewish people already knew what Hashem expected of them. They understood the importance of Torah, mitzvot, Eretz Yisrael, and living as a holy nation.

Yet Moshe asks the question anyway.  Why?  Because he is about to reveal the very foundation upon which every other mitzvah rests. He answers: "Only to fear Hashem your God." The Torah presents Yirat Shamayim—a deep awareness of Hashem—as the cornerstone of Jewish life.

Beyond Fear

The phrase Yirat Shamayim is often translated as "fear of God," but that translation can be misleading. There is certainly a level of fear that involves concern about sin and its consequences. Chazal refer to this as Yirat Ha'onesh—fear of punishment. While important, this is not the Torah's highest ideal.

The deeper meaning is what many of the great Torah thinkers describe as Yirat HaRomemut—an overwhelming awareness of Hashem's greatness and the realization that we constantly stand in His presence. It is living with the consciousness that every word we speak, every decision we make, and every moment of our lives unfolds before the Ribono Shel Olam. This awareness is not simply another mitzvah among many.  It is the mindset that gives life to every mitzvah.

A Constant Mitzvah

The Sefer HaChinuch includes this awareness among the Six Constant Mitzvot—commandments that apply every moment of every day. Unlike mitzvot tied to a specific action or time, these are obligations of the heart and mind. They define the inner world of a Jew.

Living with Yirat Shamayim means approaching every aspect of life—from business and family to learning and prayer—with the recognition that Hashem accompanies us everywhere.

Rabbi Jonathan Sacks' Powerful Response

Rabbi Jonathan Sacks once addressed a group of university students. During the discussion, one student asked him a remarkably direct question: "Rabbi Sacks, do you really believe in God?" Given Rabbi Sacks' stature as a philosopher and intellectual, the students expected an equally philosophical answer. Instead, he paused and replied:

"To say that I believe in God is a gross understatement. I live every moment of my life in the presence of God."

Every decision. Every breath. Every step. The students were stunned. Rabbi Sacks was describing not merely belief, but the lived reality of Yirat Shamayim—a life lived with constant awareness of Hashem's Presence.

The Purpose of Every Mitzvah

The Rambam teaches that the ultimate purpose of the mitzvot is to bring a person to this elevated state of awareness. Likewise, the Rema begins the Shulchan Aruch with the famous instruction:

"Shiviti Hashem l'negdi tamid"—"I place Hashem before me always."

This is not reserved for moments in shul. It applies when we wake up, eat breakfast, conduct business, raise children, and interact with others. Every aspect of life becomes elevated when lived before Hashem.

Is It Really "Only" This?

Moshe introduces Yirat Shamayim with a surprising term: "Ki im"—"Only." The Gemara (Berachot 33b) asks: "Is Yirat Shamayim such a small thing?" Surely it is one of the greatest spiritual achievements imaginable. The Gemara answers: "For Moshe, it was a small matter."

At first glance, that seems obvious—but hardly helpful. Moshe is speaking to the Jewish people, not to himself. The Vilna Gaon offers a beautiful insight. Yirat Shamayim became "easy" because the Jewish people spent forty years living in the presence of Moshe Rabbeinu. When one lives near genuine greatness, greatness becomes attainable. The inspiration of a true tzaddik elevates everyone around him.

Many people have experienced this feeling in the presence of exceptional Torah giants. Simply watching how they learn, pray, speak, and interact with others changes one's own spiritual aspirations. Greatness is contagious.

Everything Is for Our Benefit

The verse continues by listing additional responsibilities: To walk in Hashem's ways. To love Him. To serve Him. To keep His commandments. Then the Torah concludes with two remarkable words: "L'tov lach"—"For your good." Hashem does not need our mitzvot. They are not for His benefit. They are entirely for us. Torah creates lives filled with meaning, morality, purpose, and stability. Every mitzvah refines us. Every act of holiness elevates us. Everything Hashem asks of us is ultimately an expression of His love.

Moshe's Final Blessing

As Moshe Rabbeinu nears the end of his life, he summarizes what truly matters. His message is both demanding and encouraging. Yirat Shamayim is not reserved for prophets or saints. It is attainable. Every Jew can cultivate a life lived in the awareness of Hashem's Presence. That awareness becomes the foundation upon which Torah, mitzvot, love of Hashem, and spiritual growth naturally flourish.

Perhaps this is the greatest blessing Moshe leaves us with in Parashat Eikev. If we strive to live every day with Hashem before us, then every mitzvah becomes richer, every challenge gains perspective, and every step brings us closer to the ultimate redemption. The Torah's greatest request is also its greatest gift: To live every moment in the presence of Hashem.

Blessing Even Before We Have Everything: Eikev 5786

This piece by Rabbi Kenigsberg was first published in the Hanassi Highlights, 30 July 2026. You can also read it in Hebrew, thanks to ChatGPT, here.

One of the most familiar verses in this week's parsha is the source of the Torah obligation to recite Birkat Hamazon:

"You shall eat, be satisfied, and bless the Lord your God" (Devarim 8:10).

Yet the Gemara (Berachot 20b) records a remarkable conversation between the ministering angels and Hashem about this very mitzvah. The angels ask how God can "show favour" to Israel, as promised in Birkat Kohanim, when the Torah itself declares that He "shows no favour and takes no bribe." Hashem's response is striking: "How can I not show favour to Israel? I commanded them, 'You shall eat, be satisfied, and bless,' yet they are meticulous to bless Me even after eating only a kezayit or a kebeitzah."

At first glance, this seems puzzling. There are countless examples of the Jewish people going beyond the strict letter of the law. Why single out this particular rabbinic extension of Birkat Hamazon as the reason for God's special favour? Perhaps the Gemara is pointing to something much deeper than a technical detail of halacha. Our parsha paints a breathtaking picture of Eretz Yisrael: a land of flowing water, abundant crops, olive trees and honey; a land "where you will lack nothing." The Torah envisions a people blessed with prosperity, who naturally respond with gratitude after enjoying God's bounty.

Jewish history, however, has often looked very different. There were long centuries when those promises seemed distant, when many Jews knew poverty, hunger and exile far more intimately than abundance. And yet the Jewish people continued to bless. Even when all they possessed was a kezayit rather than a satisfying meal, they still thanked Hashem.

Seen in this light, the Gemara is not merely discussing the minimum quantity that obligates Birkat Hamazon. It is describing the remarkable spiritual character of the Jewish people. We did not wait until every promise had been fulfilled before thanking Hashem. Even when all we possessed was a kezayit rather than a satisfying meal, we still recognised His kindness and continued to bless Him. That unwavering faith, says God, is what makes this relationship so unique.

Today, Baruch Hashem, we live in an age that earlier generations could scarcely have imagined. The flourishing of Eretz Yisrael, its abundance, its prosperity and its vitality, echo the very promises of our parashah in ways that were unimaginable for centuries. If our ancestors found the strength to recite Birkat Hamazon with gratitude when all they had was a kezayit or a kebeitzah, then surely we, who have been privileged to witness so much of God's blessing, have even greater reason to recognise His kindness. The challenge of Parashat Ekev is to train ourselves to see what earlier generations longed to see, and to respond with the same enduring faith—but with hearts filled with an even deeper sense of gratitude.

Shabbat Shalom!

One Mitzvah or All Mitzvot? The Singular Lesson of Parashat Eikev

In his devar Torah this week, our member Rabbi Paul Bloom focuses on a small, unexpected piece of phraseology in our Torah reading and shows how much we can learn from it. He writes:

In parashat Eikev, the Torah speaks about the benefits and consequences of living a life of Torah and mitzvot. One fascinating detail is the way Moshe Rabbeinu refers to “כָּל־הַמִּצְוָה” — the commandment — in the singular, rather than the expected plural form:

 (דברים ח:א) "כָּל־הַמִּצְוָה אֲשֶׁר אָנֹכִי מְצַוְּךָ הַיּוֹם תִּשְׁמְרוּן לַעֲשׂוֹת"

Why use the singular when referring to the entire system of mitzvot? Many commentators ask this, and their answers reveal a profound key to our avodat Hashem.

All Mitzvot as One Unified System

The Ramban and others explain that “כָּל־הַמִּצְוָה” in the singular emphasizes that the mitzvot form one integrated, inseparable system. The Torah is not a menu from which one can select a few favorite commandments and consider oneself fulfilled.

They draw on the Midrash (Bamidbar Rabbah 18:21) which teaches that the 248 positive mitzvot and 365 prohibitions correspond to the 248 limbs and 365 sinews of the human body. If one finger is broken, the whole body is affected. Likewise, if one mitzvah is missing, the entire spiritual structure is impaired:

"אִם חִסֵּר אֵחָד מֵאֵבָרָיו — נִפְגָּם כֻּלּו"

This is a demanding — even daunting — interpretation. It means that partial observance misses the Torah’s goal. The mitzvot are designed to work together as a whole; only by fulfilling all of them does one achieve “כָּל־הַמִּצְוָה,” the one great commandment in its entirety.

The Infinite Value of One Mitzvah

The Kli Yakar and Rashba reverse the focus entirely. They read “כָּל־הַמִּצְוָה” as meaning that even a single mitzvah contains within it the value of the whole. Every mitzvah is a direct connection to the Ribono Shel Olam.

The Mishnah teaches:

"רצה הקדוש ברוך הוא לזכות את ישראל לפיכך הרבה להם תורה ומצוות"
 (מכות ג:טז)

The Rashba explains: this is not to burden us, but to multiply opportunities. Even if a person does just one mitzvah with pure intent (לשמה), from beginning to end, it has infinite significance.That single achievable goal of doing one  mitzvah and once there, often brings  you to do many more. This is exactly the Kli Yakar’s point: even one mitzvah is worth worlds.

Two Paragraphs of Shema: Maximum and Minimum

This interplay between “all” and “one” appears again in our parashah, in the second paragraph of Shema. The first paragraph (דברים ו:ד–ט) is written in the singular, addressed to the individual:

"וְאָהַבְתָּ אֵת ה' אֱלֹקֶיךָ בְּכָל־לְבָבְךָ וּבְכָל־נַפְשְׁךָ וּבְכָל־מְאֹדֶךָ"

This is the maximum ideal — serving Hashem with total love, unconditionally, with no mention of reward or punishment. It is pure, selfless devotion, as exemplified by Rabbi Akiva, who gave his life על קידוש השם.

The second paragraph (דברים יא:יג–כא), found in Parashat Eikev, shifts to the plural, addressing the nation:

"וְהָיָה אִם־שָׁמֹעַ תִּשְׁמְעוּ... וְנָתַתִּי מְטַר־אַרְצְכֶם בְּעִתּו"

Here mitzvah observance is tied to tangible rewards — rain, produce, security, and long life for us and our children. This is the realistic framework for a community: the motivation of blessing alongside the responsibility of obedience. The first paragraph presents the aspirational summit; the second provides the practical, accessible baseline.

Living Between the Minimum and the Maximum

The Torah thus sets two guiding poles:

●       Aim for the maximum — see the mitzvot as one complete system, serve with unconditional love, and aspire to total observance.

●       Value the minimum — recognize that even one mitzvah done purely connects you to Hashem in an eternal way.

Both poles are essential. Without the maximum, we lack vision; without the minimum, we lose accessibility.

May we merit to live with both אהבה and יראה, to integrate all mitzvot as one whole, and to treasure even a single act of connection to our Creator.

One day -- and another

Why were we forty years in the desert before entering our Promised Land? We all know what the Torah tells us -- or do we? Our member Rabbi Steven Ettinger challenges our reflex answer to this well-known question

If you were to ask most anyone with basic knowledge of the narrative of the Five Books of Torah why the Children of Israel wandered in the desert for 40 years, they would most likely answer that it was because Hashem punished them for despairing over the negative report of the spies. Hashem condemned them to sojourn one year for each day that the spies scouted in the Holy Land.  This is written in black and white in the text. 

However, in Parshat Eikev Moshe provides a completely different and quite strange answer, one that is repeated, presumably for emphasis, twice in quick succession!  Hashem forced them to travel forty years in the desert:

לְמַ֨עַן עַנֹּֽתְךָ֜ לְנַסֹּֽתְךָ֗ לָדַ֜עַת אֶת־אֲשֶׁ֧ר בִּֽלְבָבְךָ֛ הֲתִשְׁמֹ֥ר מִצְוֺתָ֖ו אִם־לֹֽא׃

וַֽיְעַנְּךָ֮ וַיַּרְעִבֶ֒ךָ֒ וַיַּאֲכִֽלְךָ֤ אֶת־הַמָּן֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר לֹא־יָדַ֔עְתָּ וְלֹ֥א יָדְע֖וּן אֲבֹתֶ֑יךָ לְמַ֣עַן הוֹדִֽיעֲךָ֗ כִּ֠י לֹ֣א עַל־הַלֶּ֤חֶם לְבַדּוֹ֙ יִחְיֶ֣ה הָֽאָדָ֔ם כִּ֛י עַל־כׇּל־מוֹצָ֥א פִֽי־יְהֹוָ֖ה יִחְיֶ֥ה הָאָדָֽם׃

In order to test you by hardships to learn what was in your hearts: whether you would keep the divine commandments or not. [God] subjected you to the hardship of hunger and then gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your ancestors had ever known, in order to teach you that a human being does not live on bread alone, but that one may live on anything that ה decrees.(Deut 8:2-3).

הַמַּאֲכִ֨לְךָ֥ מָן֙ בַּמִּדְבָּ֔ר אֲשֶׁ֥ר לֹא־יָדְע֖וּן אֲבֹתֶ֑יךָ לְמַ֣עַן עַנֹּֽתְךָ֗ וּלְמַ֙עַן֙ נַסֹּתֶ֔ךָ לְהֵיטִֽבְךָ֖ בְּאַחֲרִיתֶֽךָ׃

Who fed you in the wilderness with manna, which your ancestors had never known, in order to test you by hardships only to benefit you in the end (Deut 8:16).

In other words, they wandered in the desert for forty years not because of a sin but so Hashem could test them by feeding them manna!  This almost sounds absurd.

For a question that seems so big, there is a dearth of commentary. Only Ramban provides a detailed explanation of this test of the Manna.

כִּי הָיָה נִסָּיוֹן גָּדוֹל לָהֶם שֶׁלֹּא יָדְעוּ עֵצָה לְנַפְשָׁם וַיִּכָּנְסוּ בַּמִּדְבָּר הַגָּדוֹל לֹא מְקוֹם לֶחֶם וְאֵין בְּיָדָם כְּלוּם מִן הַמָּן, אֲבָל יָרַד דְּבַר יוֹם בְּיוֹמוֹ וְחַם הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ וְנָמָס וַיִּרְעֲבוּ אֵלָיו מְאֹד. וְכָל זֶה עָשׂוּ לִשְׁמֹר מִצְוַת הַשֵּׁם לָלֶכֶת כַּאֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה. וְהַשֵּׁם הָיָה יָכוֹל לְהוֹלִיכָם בְּדֶרֶךְ הֶעָרִים אֲשֶׁר סְבִיבוֹתֵיהֶם, אֲבָל הֱבִיאָם בַּנִּסָּיוֹן הַזֶּה כִּי מִמֶּנּוּ יִוָּדַע שֶׁיִּשְׁמְרוּ מִצְוֹתָיו לְעוֹלָם:

 [The manna itself] was a great trial to them. They did not know what counsel to adopt for themselves when they entered the great wilderness, a place of no food, and they had none of the manna [in reserve because it could not be stored from day to day] but each day’s portion came down on its day, and as the sun waxed hot, it melted, although they hungered mightily after it. All this they did to keep the commandment of G-d, to follow as He commanded. Now G-d could have led them through the [populated] cities that were around them, but instead He brought them into this trial [of never having any food in reserve] for He knew that as a result [of this experience] they would keep His commandments forever.

Let us return to that “black and white” text that implies the forty years was punishment for the sin of the spies. The language used (Numbers 14:34) י֣וֹם לַשָּׁנָ֞ה י֣וֹם לַשָּׁנָ֗ה is a bit unusual. It is repetitive, doubled. Writing the phrase once would have been enough.  A number of commentaries (i.e., the Kli Yakar) explain that one is for that moment – that generation – and one to prophesize that there will be one day of suffering, Tisha B’Av eternally set aside for crying and pain because of their sin.

However, in light of how Moshe connects the forty-year wandering in the midbar to the manna, perhaps the repetition of י֣וֹם לַשָּׁנָ֞ה foreshadows that their task was not to earn forgiveness for their sin but to exhibit steadfastness in faith in the face of ongoing adversity.

If we interpret this correctly, Moshe is saying that the forty years was preordained.  It had less to do with their despairing over the spies and much more to do with Hashem wanting to be assured that the Jewish nation could withstand daily hardship and remain committed to His commandments. Extrapolating from this, the fact that we have been afflicted with (and continue to experience) so many calamities and intense hatred and have nevertheless endured is simply a continuation of this trial – through the centuries we have merited Divine protection (our manna) but must continuously prove steadfast in our worthiness to remain his Chosen People.

Ultimately, there is another “day” that is a constant test that we not simply hope, but are promised, will be לְהֵיטִֽבְךָ֖ בְּאַחֲרִיתֶֽךָ for our benefit in the end. Every day, like the test of the manna falling, as a fundamental element of our belief as Jews we must proclaim regarding the Mashiach: “We await him that he may come any single day.”  אֲחַכֶּה לּוֹ בְּכָל יוֹם שֶׁיָּבוֹא. May today be that day!

It's the small things that count: Eikev 5784

Eikev—the word itself and the parsha generally—stresses the cause-and-effect equation that governs not just Jewish history but the history of all human civilization. Both the happy events in our lives and the sad ones are conditioned on previous human attitudes and actions. Life eventually teaches us that there is no free lunch. The rabbis stated it succinctly in Avot: “According to the effort (or hardship), so too will be the reward.” 

There really are no shortcuts in life. All attempts to tailor eternal Jewish practices and values to fit current fads and societal norms have ended in abysmal failure. The path of Jewish history is littered with the remains of people and movements who looked to reform Judaism and improve it—but instead only succeeded in making it irrelevant to their followers. 

The Torah emphasizes that Moshe raised the people up so that they would be closer to Heaven; he did not degrade Heaven by dragging it down to the level of the people. The tragedy of much of American Jewry and of many secular Jews today is not that Judaism is too hard. Rather, it was rendered too easy, too convenient—and thus void of any meaning in their everyday existence. As Moshe generally does in the book of Devarim, so too in this week’s parsha does he emphasize the difficult times that the people endured in their forty-year sojourn in the desert of Sinai. 

Moshe does not promise his people a rose garden in the Middle East when they enter the Land of Israel and conquer it. He warns them instead of the consequences of abandoning God and Torah. God is exacting: He does not tolerate the easy path that leads to spiritual weakness and eventual physical destruction. Rashi comments in our parsha that this message is particularly true regarding the “small” things in life that one easily crushes under one’s ekev (“heel”). It is the small things that truly characterize our personality in our relationships with others and with our Creator as well. 

I have noticed a trend in contemporary society that, when eulogies are delivered, they concentrate on the small things in life—stories, anecdotes, memories and personal relationships—rather than on the deceased’s public or commercial achievements, no matter how impressive they might have been. It is the small things in life that engender within us likes and dislikes, feelings of affection and love, emotions of annoyance and frustration. Our Torah too is comprised of myriad details and minutiae. The God of the vast universe reveals Himself to us, so to speak, in the atom and the tiny mite. For upon reflection and analysis there are really no small things in life. 

Everything that we say and do bears consequences for our personal and national future. It is this sense of almost cosmic influence, which every individual exercises in their everyday life, that lies at the heart of Torah and Judaism. We build the world through our own lives’ seemingly mundane behavior. 

Shabbat shalom, Rabbi Berel Wein