This powerful piece by our member Rabbi Paul Bloom discerns a message from the past that we should take to our hearts for the future.
“Deep waters are counsel in the
heart of a man, but a man of understanding will draw them out” (Mishlei 20:5).
Chazal explain that deep waters
are a metaphor for a person facing an extremely profound problem—one upon which
an enormous amount depends. Such a person does not merely need comfort; he
needs counsel, wisdom, and a solution that can chart a way forward.
The Gemara identifies Yosef as the
embodiment of this verse. Yosef represents the extraordinary power of mo’ach—of
wisdom, insight, and strategic brilliance. He is not merely an interpreter of
dreams; he is a problem-solver on a national and even civilizational scale.
When Pharaoh dreams, Yosef does not stop at explaining the symbolism. He offers
a comprehensive master plan: how to restructure the Egyptian economy, preserve
grain for years without spoilage, and sustain an entire region through famine.
Innovation, foresight, and practical genius flow from the deep waters of
Yosef’s mind.
But now Yosef faces a challenge far
greater than famine or economics. He must determine whether his fractured
family—torn apart by jealousy, hatred, and the sale of a brother—can ever be
reunited. Can Klal Yisrael come back together after such a moral
catastrophe?
The verse in Mishlei continues: “But a
man of understanding will draw it out.” To draw water (dalya) from deep
wells requires strength, courage, and resolve. This is where Yehuda enters the
story.
Two Forces Meet: Yosef and Yehuda
We now see two towering figures facing one another. Yosef possesses the amok—the depth, the brilliance, the master plan. Yehuda possesses the lev—the lion’s heart. He is the aryeh, the one with passion, responsibility, courage, and moral determination. Yehuda does something unprecedented. He declares: “I became a guarantor for this boy, for Binyamin. I laid my very life on the line for him. There is no reality in which I allow him to be taken.” No one in the Torah has ever spoken this way before. This is absolute arevut—total responsibility for another human being. Yehuda is not negotiating. He is not strategizing. He is offering himself.
And when Yosef hears this, everything
changes. This is the moment Yosef has been waiting for. Chazal tell us that,
once Yosef hears Yehuda’s words, “he could no longer restrain himself.” He
reveals his identity. Until now, Yosef’s behavior had been utterly
incomprehensible to the brothers. Why is this Egyptian ruler tormenting us? Why
frame Binyamin for a crime he clearly did not commit? Why reopen old wounds?
The answer is that Yosef was not seeking
revenge. On the contrary, he was full of forgiveness. But forgiveness alone
could not rebuild Klal Yisrael. Yosef needed a key—and that key was
hearing Yehuda say: We will never make the same mistake again. That is
the essence of teshuva. As the Rambam teaches, true repentance is proven
when a person encounters the same situation again and responds differently.
Yehuda declares: we failed once, we regret it profoundly, and we will not fail
again—at any cost.
At that moment, Yosef knows the family
can be rebuilt.
The Fusion That Creates Redemption
The Zohar reveals something remarkable.
Every morning in our tefillah, we say Shema Yisrael and immediately
proceed to V’haya im shamoa. Halachically, we are forbidden to interrupt
between them. Why? Because these are not merely two adjacent paragraphs. They
represent two distinct spiritual forces that must fuse. Shema is
intellectual reaffirmation—clarity of belief, understanding, vision. It is
Yosef. V’haya is emotional engagement—standing before Hashem with
desire, longing, responsibility, and asking for our needs. It is Yehuda.
The fusion of these two powers generates
the spiritual “nuclear energy” of Klal Yisrael. Wisdom without heart is
sterile. Passion without wisdom is dangerous. Redemption requires both. This
fusion begins in Sefer Bereishit with the initial clash—and ultimate
union—between Yosef and Yehuda. It is therefore no coincidence that the Beit
HaMikdash was built on the border of Yehuda and Binyamin. Part stood in
Yehuda’s territory, part in Binyamin’s. This bond—created through Yehuda’s
guarantee for Binyamin—was never lost. It became the geographic and spiritual
heart of the Jewish people.
Arevut in Our Time
We have witnessed this power in our own
days. Over the past couple of years of suffering in Eretz Yisrael, we have seen
Klal Yisrael come together with extraordinary arevut. People
opening their homes, their wallets, and their hearts. Volunteers arriving
simply to help.
So many people have come to Israel, but they
did not tour. They volunteered. They lived in tents, worked agricultural fields
under primitive conditions, and asked for nothing in return—except the chance
to help their people. This is Yehuda’s legacy alive today.
Before this moment in the Torah, the
family stood on the brink of permanent disintegration. But Yosef’s master plan
was never about punishment. It was about creating the conditions for teshuva,
responsibility, and unity. And once Yehuda stepped forward, Yosef drew the deep
waters out—and the family was reborn.
Be a Shamash
With Chanukah in the rear-view mirror, we need to understand the importance of the shamash. One might think it is merely a technical candle, but in truth it carries a profound lesson. The shamash lights all the other candles. It protects their sanctity. It exists not for itself, but to ignite others.
Each of us is called upon to be a
shamash—to light others, to awaken arevut, to protect the holiness and
unity of Klal Yisrael. That was the secret of the unity between Yosef
and Yehuda. And that unity remains our greatest hope for the future.

