Thursday, 23 July 2026

Never to Pray Alone: Va'etchanan 5786

This piece by Rabbi Kenigsberg was first published in the Hanassi Highlights, Wednesday 22 Jiuly. You can read it in Hebrew, thanks to ChatGPT, here.

The opening of Parshat Va'etchanan is one of the Torah’s most poignant moments. After forty years of leading the Jewish people through the wilderness, Moshe Rabbeinu asks for just one thing: the privilege of entering Eretz Yisrael.

Chazal famously note that the numerical value of the word Va'etchanan is 515, teaching that Moshe prayed no fewer than 515 times to be allowed into the Land. Few images capture the power of perseverance in prayer more vividly than this. Moshe refuses to give up, pouring out his heart again and again, even as the answer seems increasingly out of reach.

Yet only a few verses later we encounter a puzzling statement. Addressing the people, Moshe says: "Hashem became angry with me because of you, and He did not listen to me."

The words seem difficult. The Torah itself makes clear that Moshe Rabbeinu's inability to enter the Land was connected to the events at Mei Merivah. How, then, can he say that Hashem refused his prayer "because of you"?

Some explain that Moshe is referring not to punishment but to leadership. He was the leader uniquely suited to guiding Israel through the wilderness; the next generation required a different kind of leader. "Because of you" means that, for the sake of the people, history demanded that Yehoshua lead them into the Land.

Rav Soloveitchik, however, hears something even deeper in these verses.

Notice the opening word: Va'etchanan - I pleaded. It is singular. It is the prayer of one person standing alone.

Throughout his life, Moshe Rabbeinu never prayed only for himself. After the sin of the Golden Calf, after the episode of the spies, and on countless other occasions, he stood before Hashem on behalf of the Jewish people. Their suffering became his suffering; their fate became his concern.

This time was different.

According to the Midrash, had the people joined Moshe in prayer, the decree might have been overturned. The sin at Mei Merivah was indeed his own. But the loneliness of Va'etchanan - the fact that he carried this burden without the prayers of those for whom he had prayed so often --- belonged to the people.

Perhaps this is one of the enduring lessons of communal life.

A shul is not merely a place where people happen to pray in the same room. It is a place where a community gathers to carry one another's hopes, worries and burdens before Hashem. We rejoice together, we mourn together, and we pray not only for ourselves but for all those around us too.

Shabbat Nachamu, the first Shabbat after Tisha b'Av, marks the beginning of comfort and rebuilding. Perhaps that rebuilding begins not only with grand visions of redemption but with simple acts of responsibility for one another. The journey from the loneliness of Churban to the consolation of Nechamah is paved by communities that notice one another, care for one another, and pray for one another.

May we take to heart the lesson of Va'etchanan: that no Jew should ever have to stand before Hashem alone. May our tefillot, offered together and for one another, bring comfort, healing and redemption to all of Am Yisrael.

Shabbat Shalom!

Never to Pray Alone: Va'etchanan 5786

This piece by Rabbi Kenigsberg was first published in the Hanassi Highlights, Wednesday 22 Jiuly. You can read it in Hebrew, thanks to ChatG...